What Is Triangulation in Family Dynamics?
Triangulation pulls a third person into a two-person family conflict. How it sounds, why Bowen said families do it, and scripts to step out of the middle.
Read the articleEdits the Relationships section: attachment, conflict, communication, boundaries and the patterns that help partnerships and friendships last or wear them down. Checks each claim against the research it relies on, from observational studies of couples to attachment and ostracism research, and says so when a finding comes from a small or specific sample. An editor, not a therapist.
Triangulation pulls a third person into a two-person family conflict. How it sounds, why Bowen said families do it, and scripts to step out of the middle.
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